Genesis 4 brings us a story of two brothers, Cain and Abel. I assume many of the readers here are familiar with this story.
This week, we visited a new church, and pastor's sermon was on this very topic, and he explained a little more in depth about things we tend to overlook.
Cain and Abel bring their sacrifices to God, to which Abel is respected, and Cain is not. Now this part does tend to bother me, because the Bible doesnt lay out the reasons why God doesnt respect Cain and his sacrifices, it is merely assumed that Cain's heart is not in his sacrifice. It was not offered in faith and sincerity, but rather out of tradition.
Starting in Genesis 4:2-5:
"...Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil. In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the LORD. But Abel brought fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The LORD looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast"
Cain is mad that God did not show him favor, personally, I cant blame him. However, this can be a good example of doing this in repetition, we lose the "awe" and excitement God brings, it gets normalized, and we build up a tolerance to it.
God then goes to Cain, and asks "Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast?" (verse 6). God comes to Cain, God initiates the communication. He allows Cain to vent to Him, He wants Cain to vent to Him, to tell God his sins (of the heart).
Have you ever been upset at someone, and your not ready to "deal with it" when they are. You want to just let it go, and soon you will forget about it. I imagine that is whats happening here. God comes to Cain, but Cain isnt ready, he lets it continue to build within him.
Depending on the version of Bible you read, Cain either invites his brother, Abel, to the field, of they are just in the field. I like the King James Version, because it shows the brothers talking, and they end up in the field.
Verse 8: "And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field.."
They are likely to be discussing the events, or so I would like to think, when anger and rage rise up in Cain, and he kills his brother. Verse 8 in completion: "And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him."
What does God do? He comes to call on Cain.
"Then the LORD said to Cain, 'Where is your brother Abel?'
'I don't know,' he replied. 'Am I my brother's keeper?'"(verse 9)
The Lord is giving Cain an opportunity to talk with Him, its not that God doesn't know what happened, God knows all things, God wants Cain to repent, and be forgiven.
Often times God is displayed in the Old Testament as a mean, and vengful God, however we see here that God is the same as in the New Testament, merciful, forgiving.
And Cain's response: "'I don't know,' he replied. 'Am I my brother's keeper?'". He lies to God, and then challenges God.
God's response is the punishment for sin: Cain is "under a curse and driven from the ground". (verse 11).
Cain tells God that the punishment is too great, and he cannot bear it. He is a wanderer, and worries for his life. So God marks him, so that no man will kill him.
The Bible is unclear if Cain ever repented, or if he ever called on God again.
In verse 7, God shows Cain what is needed. "If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it."
Do what is right, as for forgiveness. The truly amazing truth here lies in the second part of the verse however: "you must master it". God is telling Cain, you must master your sin, you can master your sin!
We have all sinned, and fallen short of the glory of God. We have all sinned, so we have failed God's standard for acquiring a pass into heaven. The good news is that we can have forgiveness, but we can also master our sins, and sin no more.
Everyone has the ability to be sin free, to live a life without sin. The ability is there, but success rate is 0.
I am reading Malcolm Gladwell's new book "Outliers" (the same author of Blink, and The Tipping Point, all three must reads). In his book, studies show that to become a master or a instrument, a subject, a topic, a skill, you must practice 10,000 hours.
That doesnt mean, play the tuba for 10,000 hours, that means you play to improve. You cannot play the same song over and over and over, you must move on to more difficult songs, and you will improve, and eventually, 10,000 hours later, you will be a master at it.
Lets use this law of 10,000hrs in reference to mastering sin. At first, when faced with temptation, we given in fairly easy (depending on the temptation, but lets assume its easy). You succeed in seconds. Temptation comes back, and you again, fight it off, within seconds.
The intersting thing about temptaion is, it always comes back. It waits, follows you, and in that perfect moment, springs out to tempt again, this time, its harder. Every time, you rack up time for mastering sin.
For me personally, there have been long stuggles with sin, they dont pass within seconds, its within those times that maybe remembering that I can master my urges to sin, I may start to become more successful.