My wife and I have been looking for a church a little closer to us. We have been driving about 30 minutes to get to our old church, which is a little far for us. We have been attending some churches closer to us, and I must admit, I have enjoyed many of them.
Each church we have "tried out" has been a good experience, however none of them has completely impressed me. There has been something missing in each one of them, and I am wondering what God is trying to tell me.
Here's the deal, I dont really find myself too picky. I mean, I dont mind attending a church that has a differently belief as I do, in reference to once saved always saved, or other similar topics.
Sure I have preferences, and but what I really look for is a church that has an educated pastor who can communicate God's word accurately, not just based on opinion or circumstance.
Today I attended a church called Radiant Church. Gotta tell yah, I was impressed, at first. The worship style was intense, with a lot of energy. I was psyched to see the majority of the congregation was around my same age. The dress was casual, which is fine in my book. What bothered me was some of the things said from the lead pastor, Lee Cummings.
Pastor Lee was sharing about the vision of the church, what he wanted to see the church become, or what God wanted to see the church become. The idea, and intent was pure, however I struggled to see beyond some of the words.
He, Pastor Lee that is, started by talking about small churches (Radiant Church has roughly 15oo in attendance). He mentioned how all churches should strive to become big churches, because that shows that your church is successful at witnessing. People that enjoy small churches should strive to grow, because its the numbers that show God is working in your church. If the church isnt growing, then something is wrong.
Personally, I think small churches should be looked at by their age. If in fact the church is small, yet young, it shows that God is moving greatly, because here you have a group of people starting a new church.
If the church is small, and older in age (of church not members) then God could be showing its congregation something, something that needs to be worked on. Remember, God works in all our lives differently, and the size of your church doesnt mean you are not a successful church.
Next, Pator Cummings decided to talk about unity, how God wants His people to be unified. He went on to mention how Radiant Church does things differently than other local churches, because its not for them. He said that he doesnt discourage other churches from doing certain things, but it just wasnt for Radiant Church. Okay, I can dig that, but does it need to be mentioned?
(I feel it is important to point out that Radiant Church is just a block away from another large church calle Richland Bible Church, and cannot help but think he was comparing his church to this other one.)
Unity. Lets talk about this. I am SICK and TIRED of churches talking about unity amoungst the Christian people, but not meaning outside of their churches doors! LISTEN: the church is not a building, we are the body of Christ, not a stupid building, and we and the body need to come together to show the love of Christ to each and every community.
Unity, amoung ourselves, loving each other as ourselves. I dont normally enjoy sermons on love, because they then to be all mushy and crap. hypocritical. Unity, its another topic that rarely can be spoken without being a hypocrite. Let me tell you about a church, that I have attended, that I dont always agree with, yet they ahve the unity and love thing down pat.
Trinity Church in Lansing, Michigan knows how to put aside denomination. Trinity is a church that I have attended on occasion while in Lansing. I personally, dont like their worship style. They sing the same chorus' many times over, and for me, thats turns me off, big time.
Trinity however, joined by many other local churches, met the needs of their communities. 30 local churches to be exact. 30 churches put aside thier denomination, and answered a call by Lansing's mayor to feed families in need. The goal was to raise 40,000 dollars. the money was used to purchase 37 tons of food to feed 2,000 families in need, in Lansing.
$114,000 was donated. Volunteers, 3,300 people from 30+ churches gathered together at Eastern High School to distribute the food. ($40,000 was used to purchase 37 tons of food and the remaining $74,000 was donated to Salvation Army and smaller food banks for food only.)
As I returned home after the service, I started to think, and mull over what I felt I should do. I am tempted to treat churches like a job, only I am the employer. Let them tell me why I should attend, or how they live out the messages they preach on. Is that wrong? Is that something that doesnt sit well with you?
I am a strong believer, I am a natural leader, I follow and study God's word. I want a church that will lead me, that has opportunity for me to help. I want to find a church that isn't hung up on their interpretation of ideology, but sees the greater purpose.
I was so ready to say Radiant Church is the church for my family, however again, I feel stuck.
When are churches going to start acting like the body of Christ?
Resources:
Radiant Church
Trinity Church